Motivational Words: Who but you?

There is nothing wrong with loving yourself, in fact if you don’t love yourself who will? People always think that others have to love you just because but in reality they don’t! People will love you if you love you. You have to understand that if you don’t value yourself and give yourself your place others will forget you and you might just blend in the background. The person who is sure of themselves and know how much they are worth those are the people that other people want to surround themselves with. And your probably thinking why? Well that’s where loving yourself kicks in. Do you want to be around someone that makes the ride fun and nice or around someone that doesn’t feel like riding and they just don’t want to be nice? Those that aren’t nice those are the people that for some reason don’t love who they are. The person who loves themselves will always be sure about themselves, no matter what! The person who loves themselves know they come before anything or anybody. They are not easily bothered nor get easily upset. Therefore they give off that vibe to other people that’s when others start to sense that and that’s when they start coming around and that’s how they can get to love you just because you are loving yourself. I know for many of us its hard and we don’t comprehend where is it that we can learn how to love yourself and the answer is pretty simple and basic… it comes within. Society is so caught up in the day to day life they forget who they are…but it only takes a few minutes to remind yourself how amazing and wonderful you are. And here are some tips on how you can do that…and just note this down “after you repeat something over and over again your mind eventually starts to believe it and when you believe in it it becomes reality”

*this you have to be your own recorder repeat repeat repeat as often as you can remember*
Tell yourself every morning when you wake up I am beautiful, I am smart, there is nothing I cant do, nothing will stop me. I am on top of the world NO MATTER WHAT! Even if you have to say this crying just say it!

spend alone time at least once a week or perhaps a few hours so that you can gather your thoughts

tell yourself at least three times a day i love myself i love myself i will always love myself

never see with the negative point of view your eyes and your mind only see and understand positive positive positive nothing other than positive

when there is a situation where you feel upset don’t let it control your mood tell yourself this isn’t worth a minute of my life, everything is fine, there is nothing i cant handle, its fine its fine

I hope that these words can help you out I will be posting more soon but this is the start of the new you! And remember only YOU are worth it! (; © Janet Rodriguez